Sarvam paravasham dukham sarvam athma vasham
sukham etheth vidya samasana lakshanam
sukha dukha yo. This verse gives two fundamental truths regarding happiness and sorrow.
Life becomes a sorrow when we depend on somebody else and everything becomes
happiness if I am dependent on myself. This is the definition of dukham and
sukham in short. DEPENDENCE is sorrow and INDEPENDENCE is happiness.
This is not such a great truth we find in the scriptures but we experience it
every day.
If
you have to come to this hall for the lecture then you need transportation. If
you take the bus you know all the problems; it will be overcrowded, you may not
get the seat, pick pocketers, or the bus may stop some furlong along. And if
you take an auto rickshaw then you’ll know the problems; he will ask for return
journey and ask for an inflated rate. Then I get a vehicle and it is always
under repairs. The mechanic never gives the vehicle back. You’ll realize that wherever there is
dependence there is dukham. Because wherever there is dependence there
is expectation. Expectation on other people or things. Since others are not in
my control my expectations may be fulfilled or often not fulfilled there is
anxiety, sorrow, tension and frustration. So any time you are depressed analyze
as to the cause of sorrow. You will find that you were expecting something from
somebody or some object or some situation. As long as dependence is there,
there will be expectation and as long as expectations are there,
disappointments will be there and sorrows cannot be avoided. And if you delve
deeper you’ll find our dependences or expectations are for three things
alone: artha, kama and dharma.
The first is for security; we depend on
money, shelter, company, job, status etc. I depend on people, situations and
objects for security or artha. The second is we depend or expect entertainment.
After I have security I want some kind of entertainment as I go to some beach
or music programme or movie or watch cricket, tv, radio etc. This is kama. So
everyone strives for security and happiness in their life time. The third and
final expectation is that we believe in life after death in our culture. After
death we travel to different lokas. The support for travel after death is
dharma; it is only the punya karma done by the dead person and the karmas done
by the children that will help in this travel. Many people want sons for the
paraloka gati. They are worried whether their sons will do shradha and
tharpanams. And whether he will marry within the same caste etc. The third
expectation is dharma from oneself and one’s children for after death travel.
The scriptures say that any dependence – while living in this world in the form
of artha and kama or dharma after death – as long as any dependence is there on
others your life will continue to be miserable.
Then what is the way out? sarvam athma vasham sukham; we should
depend on ourselves for security; on ourselves for entertainment and on
ourselves for after death travel. And a person who depends on himself or
herself is called jeevan mukta. A “jeevanmukta” is a free person; means one
who depends on oneself. He or she finds security in themselves; I don’t
need anything for entertainment. And after death worries I don’t depend on my
karma or my children’s performance of rituals. Rather he finds the 3 goals in
himself. Such a person does not depend on money or job for this happiness; he
does not depend on movies and any other person for his happiness; neither does
he depend on any karma or his children for his after death travel as Krishna
points out. Such a person is jeevan muktah and free while living in this world.
All our scriptures are talking about this freedom alone, this independence
alone and which alone is the source of joy.
The original scriptures that give this
teaching of freedom is Veda. Vedas are meant for this independence which we
call as moksha, muktihi, or parama purusharthah. These Vedas were later
enlarged by rishis which are secondary scriptures. Primary scriptures are
“shruthi” and these are revelations from God and there is no human intellect
involved. Secondary scriptures are written by rishis, human beings, and they
are “smriti grantha” and they contain the same teaching as those of the Vedas
or Shruthi which are teachings of FREEDOM. Later these smrithis were elaborated
in the form of Puranas, most of them attributed to Veda Vyasa, and these too
deal with inner freedom. Thereafter came Ithiasa in the form of Ramayana and
Mahabharata – again the same topic of freedom but in the form of stories. So
all Vedas, Smrithi, Puranas and Itihasa deal only with one topic of freedom
from artha, kama, and dharma. How to find artha in ourselves? How to find
kama in ourselves? And how to find dharma in ourselves? Finding these in
ourselves in moksha.
Even though DEPENDENCE is considered as
SORROW and INDEPENDENCE is considered as JOY the problem is nobody can
straight-away attain independence. Freedom cannot be directly attained by us. Initially
we have to resort to dependence. Just as a baby learns to walk using the
mother’s finger, or chair, or wall before it realizes its own strength in the
legs. It falls many times but a time came when the child got independent. Similarly
we were in the womb of the mother and dependent on her. Fed and supported by
the mother the baby grew. It cannot remained satisfied there but kicked the
womb and come outside. The fruit when it is raw has to depend upon the tree and
once ripe it falls free and becomes independent. Similarly we join the school
and learn before we grow out of it. So throughout our life we learn this
lesson: Dependence, Grow, Independence.
Similarly
the scriptures divide our life into two stages. First stage is: Dependence on
the world, dependence on the family, dependence on the neighbourhood, and
dependence on everything for the fulfillment of artha, kama, and dharma. This
first stage of dependence can be called a “religious life”. This is the
teaching of Veda purva. Veda purva is the stage of learning to depend and
growing. I have to depend on the family for physical growth, emotional growth,
intellectual growth, spiritual growth. I have to depend on community and so
many things. Then comes the next stage of life which is philosophy which is
Vedanta where a person gradually withdraws. This is stage of scriptures that
teaches an individual to reduce his/her dependence and learn to be happy and
secure within themselves. When we resort to dependence initially we should
remember that this dependence is only temporary. Only then dependence is a
healthy dependence. Any dependence that leaves me permanently stuck,
permanently attached, permanently addicted; such a dependence is unhealthy
dependence. Thus there are two kinds of
dependences: unhealthy dependences that leads one from dependence to
more dependence that leads to addiction like family addiction, money addiction or
children addiction etc. Everyone must know that dependence must not be
permanent, the fruit should not be permanently be in the tree and it should
come out. It would stupid for a student
to say,” I like this teacher so much that I am going to be in class II for the
rest of my lives”. This is not good for the student nor is it good for the
teacher. A teacher is one who makes the student independent. Similarly a parent
is great if they make their children independent. A father must not keep his
kids permanently dependent on him and that is called attachment. Passion and
attachment cause all kinds of problems. Therefore religion prescribes
healthy dependence. That is why we have four ashramas in our tradition. Brahmacharya
and Grishta ashramas are those in which an individual gets into activities, get
into new relations etc. I grow gradually in the later stages I learn to
withdraw in Vanaprastha and Sanyasa ashramas. Thus religion first prescribes healthy
dependence and thereafter takes us to independence. One is Veda purva and
later is Vedanta. Thus Vedas, both – purva and antha – leads a person to
freedom. This scriptures consisting of religion and philosophy is condensed in
the Bhagavad Gita.
Vedas
are very vast and many people cannot study that. Many people have no time to
study, many people are not qualified to study. We get the condensed version of
the entire Vedic teaching in the Bhagavad Gita. As you are all aware Bhagavad
Gita is a part of Mahabharata which is composed by the great Vyasacharya and
who is an incarnation of Lord Vishnu. Gita is a dialogue between Krishna, who
is an avatara, and Arjuna in the Mahabharata battlefield. It consists of
eighteen chapters and running to about 700 verses. Seven hundred verses seems
to be very big but it is in fact very small when compared to Mahabharata that
is over one lac verses. So Gita is less than one percent of the Itihasa. So
Bhagavad Gita is a very small portion in the form of a dialogue between Krishna
and Arjuna condensing the Vedic teaching.
The
first chapter of the Gita consists of 48 verses. This chapter can be broadly
classified into two portions. The first portion gives the context for the
dialogue to take place. The first 27 verses deal with the context. From 28 to
the end of the chapter we discuss the description of human bondage or human
dependence, as we said before sarvam
paravasham dukham. That “paravasham” or dependence is discussed which is
“samsara” or bondage.
In
the first portion the context of the Mahabharata war is presented. As you are
aware Mahabharata is about Kauravas and Pandavas. The Kauravas lead a sinful
or “adhramic” life. In the Gita they are
called “atha thaee” or the “worst criminals”. Those who commit one of these
five terrible sins is called “atha thaee”. The one who burns the house of
other, the one who poisons another person, the one who kills another person
with a weapon when the victim is weaponless, one who steals the wealth of another
person; taking away the land or the wife of another person. If a person commits
any one of these sins he is “atha thaee”. And Duryodhana has done all of them.
He is not just “atha thaee” but a maha atha thaee. Pandavas had to suffer a lot
due to Duryodhana who refuses to give land even after they had spent the
prescribed time in the forests. He refused to give them even an inch of land.
On the other hand the Pandavas are virtuous as Yudhistra was dharma putra and
they followed ahimsa as they did not retaliate to the Kauravas atrocities. They
tried sama, dhana, behda, to avoid a war and all of them before resorting to
danda. Finally Lord Krishna was sent as a messenger as a last resort. The Vedas
themselves says that if an adharmic person does not change then a person can
retaliate. Ahimsa is not an absolute value but in certain conditions himsa
becomes mandatory after exhausting sama, dana, and bheda. Only a kshtriya is
entitled to use the danda. Not a brahmana, or a vyshya or a sudra can resort of
violence. Only a kshtriya is entitled to use violence to correct or vanquish an
adharmic person if the non-violent method has failed. The Pandavas were patient
for a long time before they realized that war alone is the solution. They knew
it was “dharma yudham”. The D-day was fixed and both the armies were assembled
and facing each other. Duryodhana approached Drona and mentions all the
warriors on both sides. The Kauravas are powerful both numerically and
strength-wise as compared to the Pandavas and yet Duryodhana is diffident. By
this Vyasa makes an important point: no amount of wealth or status will give
security if dharma is violated. On the other hand the Pandavas had the support
of dharma in the form of Lord Krishna on their side. They were enthusiastic in
contrast. Bhishma spotting Duryodhana’s diffidence blew to conch to instil
confidence in the prince. As we have seen in our life some people keep talking
too much and this is a sign of insecurity and noise serves as a temporary boost
to one’s morale. Noise is a nice method of escapism. Bhishma thus sounded the
conch and started the great battle. Then all the warriors from both sides blew
their conches and at that time Arjuna wanted to see the faces of the warriors
arraigned against him. Arjuna commanded Krishna, “Take me to the middle of the
battlefield and let me see.” Krishna is only a charioteer and he implicitly
obeys Arjuna’s order for He is the servant and Arjuna is the master. Here
Krishna does a little mischief as HE brings the chariot in front of Bhishma,
Drona and not before Duryodhana or Karna etc. We have to pause for a moment and
observe Arjuna’s mind which was fast collapsing. Arjuna’s happiness was
dependent on Bhishma and Drona. He had a lot of attachment on both of them.
That
leads us to the second portion of the chapter where Arjuna’s mind undergoes a
sea change. Until then Arjuna was not emotional upset and his intellect was
very bright and clear. He very well knew that this was not a battle between
relations but between dharma and adharma. But the moment he saw Bhishma and
Drona his budhi, or intellect, was overwhelmed. And this is the beginning of
samsara. Here we see samsara that is caused by dependence and Vyasa defines
samsara in three technical terms. One is krupaya avisttah, meaning leaning or
dependent or attachment on another person to be secure, to be comfortable, to
be full and to be complete. Arjuna’s attachment to Bhishma and Drona was not
ordinary. It is intense attachment. And sorrow is directly proportional to the
intensity of attachment. That is why when a person dies different members in
the family are affected in different measures. But for others who read the
obituary in the newspaper it does not cause any emotion. So can you that death
is the cause of sorrow? If death is the cause of sorrow then it must cause
equal sorrow to all the people. Vyasa makes a point here: death is not the
cause of sorrow, the object is not the cause of sorrow but it is your
dependence (your leaning, psychological leaning, attachment) is the cause of
sorrow. For us Bhishma and Drona are not important but we have got our own
weaknesses. Arjuna has got his own weakness for them. Arjuna grew up on
Bhishma’s lap and he must have heard many stories and so his attachment was
intense; therefore sorrow too is intense even at the thought of their death. That
imaginary loss was something he could not stand, and what to talk about actual
loss. So the word krupa here means attachment. Here we should be careful and we
must learn to differentiate between love and attachment. Love is a positive
virtue and Krishna defines a wise person as an embodiment of universal love. In
attachment I depend upon the other person where as in love I allow the other
person to depend on me. Love is from a stronger person who directs it to a
weaker person. Love comes from strength and when the other person wants my help
I give it to them. But I am not dependent on them. Love is born out of
independence and strength and there is no expectation. While in attachment it
is born out of weakness, born out of dependence and there are lot of
expectations. It is this attachment Vyasa says “krupa”. And Arjuna was
“avisttah”, he was overwhelmed. This leads to sorrow or vishadah and that is
why this chapter is called “Arjuna vishada” yoga. Vyasa points that everyone is
facing vishada because of this raga only. The object of attachment may vary
from person to person but the problem of attachment is universal. Arjuna’s
sorrow was so intense and overflowing that it was expressed in the physical
body. When the sorrow is mild it is only in the mind and not seen in the body,
but when the sorrow is intense even the body is disturbed. Arjuna’s hands were
trembling, his throat was perched etc. When the attachment is intense the
vishada is also intense.
Then
there is another problem Vyasa points out. When there is sorrow then there is
confusion or delusion. When emotion overflows in a person then the intellect is
blunted; intellect is not able to think properly. That is why when we are angry
we don’t know what we are saying. Some parents in angry shout at their kids as
“donkey”; then what would be the elders? In intense emotions rational thinking
is lost and right things are seen as wrong and wrong things as right. This is
called “mohah”. This delusion or moha is seen as Arjuna says,” We will get paapam
by killing these atha thaee.” According to dharma sastra a “atha thaee” must be
given capital punishment even without a trial. It is like “shoot at sight” in
modern terminology. A kshtriya must kill the “atha thaee” and he will only get
punyam for it. He will never get paapam killing such an despicable person who
has committed any of the five terrible sins. Had Arjuna said that killing
Duryodhana is a sin then we can attribute to Arjuna’s ignorance. But saying
killing these atha thaee is a sin means that he is terribly confused and
deluded. These three put together is samsara or bondage – raga, shokha and
moha. Attachment, Sorrow, Confusion.
This
problem of Samsara is not unique for Arjuna but it is universal. Had Gita only
meant for Arjuna or to those living in 5th century BC or 2nd
century BC then Gita is not relevant for us. Gita is relevant and it became
popular for Arjuna represents the entire humanity. Humanity of any century. If
we study our entire life we find in our life attachment, sorrow, and confusion.
We go from one attachment to another. I love a person and whether she dies or
deserts me then I go looking for someone. Even then I don’t learn the lesson
that attachment is wrong. It is like giving up smoking and taking up chewing.
Then gave up chewing and took up gambling; left gambling and took to
race-course. We don’t recognize the sorrow caused by dependence and keep moving
from one dependence to another. We don’t find any improvement in our life.
Earlier we cried for losing marbles or balloons and now we cry for jobs and
women. The cause of sorrow that stems from dependence varies but the sorrow
itself does not go away. This is confused thinking and we go to our deaths in
bondage. We don’t come out of bondage instead move from one bondage to another;
not from bondage to liberation. Like moving from the frying pan to the fire. Arjuna
experiences this samsara intensely and he decides not to fight this war. He
dropped his bow and quiver of arrows and sat in the middle of the chariots with
tears of sorrow. It is this problem of samsara we have to learn from the first
chapter.
Once
we have understood the context and Arjuna’s samsara in this chapter we should
focus on the fundamental human problem and not be diverted with questions like “What
were the others doing when Arjuna-Krishna were having a dialogue? Or whether
Arjuna is a fictitious character or real? Or whether Kurushetra is in Haryana
or Afghanistan? Shankaracharya does not even write a commentary for the first
chapter. From this we have to realize that we have to take the essence of the
story and not delve on the story; we have learn the problem of samsara as it
impacts our life and not go fishing after questioning the veracity of the
story. Arjuna diagnosed the problem of samsara and therefore worked for a cure.
In the same way we should also diagnose our disease and try to come out of it.
The problem is not with the wife or children, the problem is not with the
society or neighbor, the problem is not with the boss or subordinates but the
cause of all our problems is due to your attachment on external objects or
people. Then I understand that my sorrow is my problem caused by my ignorance and
not those external things. As Swami Dayananda nicely says: The problem is you.
The solution also is you. The first chapter is for “discovery of samsara”.
After
Arjuna’s experience of Raga- Shokha- Moha (Attachment-Sorrow-Delusion) we find
that Krishna does not come to Arjuna’s rescue at all. Krishna is a free person
and HE is not bound by samsara. Only a free person can help a person in bondage
and not another bounded person. There is a rule in our sastras: NEVER ADVISE A
PERSON UNTIL HE SEEKS. If we advise without their seeking then we will lose our
value; our words will fall on deaf ears. If you are not asked, if you are not
approached then don’t open your mouth. Many read a book or listen to a song and
then insist on sharing with others. This is not right. We should only make an
exception with respect to children and advise them till they grow up. Otherwise
the general rule is never advise anyone unless they ask for it. You must
only give advice then they are ready to take advice. Therefore the first
chapter of the Gita ends with Arjuna’s discovery of samsara. Krishna does not
give any advice in this chapter. HE does so only from the second chapter when
Arjuna recognizes his helplessness and seeks the Lord’s advice. This requires
humility; an arrogant person will not surrender. An arrogant person cannot
surrender and only a person who surrenders can receive the teaching. We
surrender at the feet of a guru who is a free person. How do we find a guru? Should
we give an advertisement in the paper saying: we are all samsaris and we need a
guru to lift us out of it. The Sastras themselves declare that when you are
ready, when you are ripe and when you have discovered the problem of samsara
and a person sincerely seeks a solution then the law of the Lord is that such a
person will find a guru around. Arjuna surrenders at the feet of Lord Krishna
and asks for the teaching. Only then the Gita teaching begins. The first
chapter sets the context and discovery of the problem, the teaching starts only
from the second chapter.
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